Relating or Reacting? You be the judge

AUDIO ATTACHED BELOW: Most of us want wondrous, fulfilling things from our relationships. No doubt, what we experience and enjoy in our relationships can be among the best things on earth. So often, we look to whether the relationship is providing these gifts instead of how we are or are not creating the atmosphere in which they can emerge. In our quest for beautiful relationships, many of us have forgotten how to first relate to the other, and relate instead to what we desire, need or think is ‘right’ (then wonder why the other doesn’t respond favorably).  If we are not relating directly in the present to the other, very little will follow. Listen here for the true definition of ‘relating’ and ‘relationships’…it just might blow your mind!